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Published: 3 November 2018 (GMT+10)

Confidence in the face of death

S.W. from the United States writes,

Hi, I'm a Christian but I'm scared to die. My friend died at 40 from cancer, and ever since then, I'm like, what if we’re wrong? What if we die and that’s it? That would be so sad. Just to go to sleep and that’s it. I was just wondering if you have any articles that might be helpful. Thank you for your time.

Lita Cosner, CMI-US, responds:

Thank you for writing in. I think if we’re honest most would have to admit to having this thought occasionally. So as believers, how do we counter these thoughts?

First, as Christians, how do we know what we claim to know about what happens to us after we die? If it were simply a matter of “our best guess” or even the testimony of fallible people who have had ‘near death experiences’, we would have reason for uncertainty. But God has been kind to us in giving us a sure source so that we can be certain in the face of death. Jesus descended from Heaven, so has the authority to tell us about Heaven (John 3). And His death and resurrection not only authenticates His claims, but serves as an example of the kind of resurrection we wait for (1 Corinthians 15).

To understand the true significance of the comfort this provides us, we have to view this truth within the framework of the Bible’s “big story”. God originally created humans to live forever on the earth He created to be our home, with no suffering, disease, or death. But Adam’s sin brought the curse of death not only on his descendants but the whole world. Even in Genesis 3, where God pronounces the curse of death, however, He gives an indication that death, disease, and suffering will not have the final victory. He foretells about the Seed of the Woman who will gain victory over the Serpent, reversing that curse.

The rest of the Old Testament tells us the story of the people of God through whom the Messiah would come. The line of the Messiah was narrowed down to a descendant of Shem, then a descendant of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, then Judah, then David. Along the way, various men prefigured and ‘looked forward to’ the Messiah in the sense that in a limited way they were Messiah-like, but all fell short. This tells us that no matter how righteous the individual, no human could fulfill the role of Savior. Also, God gave His good law to Israel, but even the most righteous people failed to keep it entirely, showing that the Law can never save us.

When Jesus came, God’s own Son, fully God and fully man, He fulfilled the Scriptures that spoke of the coming Messiah. He spoke with authority about death and what comes after, and did many signs and miracles to authenticate His teaching. His death and resurrection are the most powerful proof that what He says is true.

So what did Jesus teach? Jesus says that He is the only way to the Father (John 14:6). Whoever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16). Christ promises that those who trust in Him will be with him in Paradise following our death (Luke 23:43), and we additionally have the promise of a resurrection like His when He returns (John 5:29).

At the time of the Second Coming, Jesus will overturn the curse of death and suffering forever (Revelation 21:4). His people will be resurrected with glorious bodies that will never age, get sick, or die. And the world will be restored to what He always intended it to be, and we will reign with Him forever.

So the answer to fear and uncertainty regarding death and what comes after is to cling more tightly to the promises of Scripture. I would encourage you to speak with your pastor about this.

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Readers’ comments

David B.
I believe in the dual nature of the Christ but if He was fully either man or God it would mutually exclusive,truly God and truly man I believe is more accurate.Am I wrong?
Lita Cosner
Either "fully" or "truly" sufficiently describes Jesus' deity and humanity together. It's not necessarily mutually exclusive either way--though perhaps "truly" is a little clearer given modern usages of the terms.
Bruce B.
Thank you once again, Lita, for a beautifully concise and simple explanation of the faith that Christians have in their own final destination - the promise that our Lord Jesus has 'prepared a room for us'. I hope that SW feels completely reassured.
Being of a certain age when one attends more funerals than weddings - when our awareness of our own mortality becomes complete - it is interesting to note the radical difference between a Christian funeral and a secular one.
Despite the sadness of losing a loved one, Christian funerals seem invariably to be pervaded by joy and hope because we know our departed loved one has gone home to be with the Lord as He has promised.
Secular funerals, on the other hand, no matter how expertly, caringly and compassionately carried out, always leave you feeling that something is missing, that there is a lack of completeness. Expressions of hope and reassurance are often offered up but with no justification for them. Reassurances that suggest the departed has gone on to better things, to peaceful rest etc are empty and without foundation. I think that people intuitively know this and it often leaves them unhappy and unsatisfied with no sense of closure. If only they would listen to the wonderful promises given to the Christian of eternal life in the presence of the Creator.
Gert L.
Thank you CMI for this forum on matters concerning divine creation. While the intensity re. evidence and arguments for the six day creation account are always augmenting (and perhaps more so in this day and age), the same for evolution has been weak since it surfaced back then. Likeminded people are thankful for the work done by the gifted devout brothers and sisters at CMI for raising the best arguments possible. Concerning the topic of doubting one’s own salvation: seek the Face of God, pray without ceasing, raising and confessing our concerns and daily wrongdoing to the Lord God, also refer The Lord’s Prayer, spend much time in reading and studying His Word, live a sanctified life, testify and encourage Christians and unbelievers alike. Thank you.
David G.
I'm in a potentially similar position to the writer's friend so here's how I think.
1. The creation account in Genesis 1, etc. assures me that God created us for fellowship in the real time-space of the creation. 2. The incarnation and resurrection of our Lord and Saviour, also in the real time-space of the creation assures me that God is able to do far more than we can hope or think. 3 the assurances the Spirit gives through Paul scattered through his letters thrill me with the prospect of being in the company of our Father/Creator FOR EVER.

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